According to the Population Reference Bureau[1] the number of single moms in the US has risen dramatically over the last 40 years. In 2009 a massive 18.1 million children were categorized as living in single-mother households (a single mother household is one in which a family is headed by a female with no spouse present). Although children brought up in single-parent households can and do succeed many are hampered by poverty, and have an increased risk of dropping out of school or becoming teen parents.

Majority of Single Mothers have no Life Insurance

Having sole responsibility for the children means single mothers must consider the welfare of the kids in the event of their death – a necessary (albeit unpleasant) task you might think, but worryingly estimates show that almost four in ten single parents do not have any life insurance cover – and those who do have often not arranged enough.

Single moms must make life insurance a priority so that their children do not suffer financially as well as emotionally should the unthinkable happen– their Life Cover must ensure sufficient resources for children to live on as well as perhaps the opportunity to go to college later on. Life insurance which would pay out on the death of the policy holder (term insurance) might be a good option to consider, however it’s worth discussing possibilities with a good insurance agent who will be able to give an expert opinion on the best low-cost life insurance policies for those on a low income.

Obama aims to get Single Moms back to school

In an attempt to lift single mothers out of poverty Barack Obama is attempting to make prospects better for single moms who want to return to study but are hampered by lack of finances. Grants are available to enable single mothers to get a second chance at education – education which can only benefit both their families and their future employers.

The Scholarships for Moms program has increased funding via Pell Grants ,which have been around for some time – the maximum amount of aid has been increased to over $5000 –$1000 more than previously. Also importantly the range of study options for which funding is available has increased to cover part-time and distance study, thereby making it far easier for a single mother to access learning whilst working or caring for children. A further $10,000 worth of financial aid via a Scholarship is available for some single mothers – in order to qualify you must be female and have a child.

The Obama Scholarships give single moms a real chance at improving prospects both for themselves and their children – but they must also consider how important life insurance is to their offspring’s potential happiness and security.

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Divorce is right up there with bereavement when it comes to raising stress levels, and – as well as being one of life’s most unpleasant experiences, a break up also seriously impacts on your financial health. This is why it pays to plan ahead – and life insurance, as ever, should be an integral element of planning for life’s undesirable eventualities.

Unfortunately, however, married couples neglect to consider negative outcomes. As Carole Peck, president of Carole Peck Financial Center puts it “Couples often overlook the financial ramifications of their split, or assume lawyers will hammer things out to everyone’s satisfactions.”

Female Spouse often Loses out Financially in Divorce

Very often it is the female partner who gets to keep the family home in the event of a divorce, in order to carry on looking after the children in familiar surroundings.

In exchange the main wage earner, (usually, but not always), the male spouse, tends to keep control of IRAs and other long term financial assets; and while he continues to reap the rewards from their previously joint financial portfolios the family home may start to seem  less of an asset and more of an intolerable financial burden.

Even with decent alimony and child support there may well not be sufficient funds to keep up with mortgage payments, property taxes and home repairs. And if payments cease due to the illness or bereavement of an ex-spouse the family face eviction.

Life Insurance can Provide Financial Stability in the Event of Divorce

Ellie DeLano writes a blog – the ‘Divorce Diaries’ about her personal journey through the divorce process and urges women to think about the importance of life insurance in the event of divorce . The spouse considered to be the most financially well-off (usually the male) should be encouraged to take out a life insurance policy which includes the children as beneficiaries, until they can be considered independent.

In her case she was lucky – a divorced friend had urged her many years previously to have it written into the parenting agreement that Peter, her husband, be “required to name me as beneficiary on his life insurance, until the children are no longer my dependents.” Now that the couple are divorcing Ellie is thankful for this timely advice.

As she says, “If I were to die unexpectedly, Peter would have more than enough money to buy and keep a roof over the kid’s heads, feed them and even probably send them to college. If the situation were reversed, I’d be in serious trouble. We’d lose the house without his support check, and life would certainly be much harder than I complain about now.”

Life Insurance could be a Lifeline – so it Pays to be Practical

In her ‘Divorce Diaries’ Ellie advises even the most happily married to plan for any contingency:  “Don’t sell yourself short just to seem like the ‘nicer’ person.”

We all enter into our marriage contracts thinking it will last forever- but it is imperative to use your ‘practical head’ when planning the future. Setting up adequate life insurance has to be a priority when it comes to safeguarding a future for you and your children – something which you may be very thankful for one day.

Source: mainstreet.com posted 02 December 2010

Divorce Diaries, posted in WomansDay.com Editors on 29 December 2010

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Certain female celebrities such as Courtney Cox Arquette, Madonna and perhaps most famously of all Demi Moore have been the envy of many women due to the fact they bagged themselves much younger husbands. However, new research puts a damper on their apparent good luck.

A study published in May 2010 in the journal “Demography” looked at data collected from over 2 million Danish couples. Statistics showed that women who married partners seven to nine years younger than themselves had an increased mortality rate of 20%.

The study, carried out by the Max Planck Institute for Demographic Research in Rostock, Germany, found that women who marry considerably older men also tend to have shorter lives. A big age gap either way from a woman’s point of view has a detrimental effect on her life expectancy.

A woman’s best choice of partner for a long life is someone of the same age or slightly older.

Men who marry younger women are a much better risk to a life insurance company

This is not the case for men since the research showed that the mortality risk of a man who marries a woman seven to nine years younger than himself is reduced on average by 11%, compared to marrying someone the same age.

“Health Selection” doesn’t work for women

Previously it was thought that it was beneficial for either partner to marry a younger spouse.  This idea known as “health selection” says that those selecting younger partners are generally healthier and have the potential to live longer than others, and that by matching up with someone younger this would increase the positive psychological and social effects which help in older age.

Why don’t women  benefit from their younger husbands

According to researcher Sven Drefahl, “One of the few possible explanations is that couples with younger husbands violate social norms and thus suffer from social sanctions.” It is also believed that the psychological and social benefits an older husband gets from a younger wife do not hold true the other way round – the husband is unlikely to have as many social contacts as a woman would and is less likely to match a woman in terms of the level of care he will offer his ageing wife.

The good news is that life insurance for married couples is cheaper overall

The bright side is that marriage raises life expectancy for both sexes compared with the unmarried, with women overall still outliving men by a few years. This makes them more of a positive investment for a life insurance company when it comes to taking out a life insurance policy.

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The need for parents to consider taking out life insurance has been highlighted recently. LIFE (Life and Health Insurance Foundation for Education) recently awarded $105,000 worth of Scholarships to students who could not afford to pay for college because a parent had died.

Parents who die without Life Insurance Scupper College Plans for Children

LIFE reported on the case of Esther Kim who was only 16 when her dad died of cancer – he didn’t have any life insurance, which left her and her family financially insecure. Esther had always been a straight ‘A’ student and had always planned to go to College, but the bereavement looked set to put her plans on hold, since she, along with her mom had to work flat out in order to keep the family going.

Luckily for Esther she now has the chance to start a course at Oglethorpe University. She has achieved this by using money she saved herself, as well as a student loan and a scholarship worth $10,000 from the not for profit organization LIFE.

Parents have to Consider Children’s Future should they Die Prematurely

Mr Marvin H Feldman, President and CEO of LIFE Foundation stated “ When parents die prematurely without adequate life insurance, the people who depend on them most – their children – often face difficult financial realities that can force their dreams of a higher education and a better life to be put on hold.” “We are proud to be able to help deserving young people like Esther and our other scholarship recipients to reach their college goals, and we hope their stories will remind all parents to protect the financial well-being of their loved ones through proper financial planning.”

The LIFE Lessons Scholarship Program offers scholarships to students who are unable to afford a college education due to a parent dying with negligible or no life insurance. During the last year 59 American students received awards from the Foundation – in order to qualify students had to make a video, or write about the financial consequences of losing their mom or dad.

The judges included members of the LIFE Board, as well as Life Insurance company executives, from some of the top US Life Insurance companies. One of the scholarships was awarded as a result of an online vote – Mashell Ewing was the winner, for describing how difficult her financial circumstances had become since the death of her single mom.

Single Parents need to Consider Life Insurance as a Priority

Mashell’s mom died suddenly of a heart attack having made no provision for life insurance. Since then Mashel l and her brother both had to work long hours just to pay the rent and care for their younger sister. Despite this Mashell managed to secure a place at the University of California, Berkeley and so determined was she, she took out loans to help pay for college fees. The extra $5000 dollars awarded to her last year by LIFE will help her achieve her plan to graduate this May.

The LIFE foundation was set up in 1994 with the aim of educating the public about life, health, disability, and long-term care insurance.

Source: lifehappens.org/content

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People getting divorced are often locked in a hostile battle: The emphasis is on whom gets what in terms of property, income and assets, and of course who gets custody of the children if there are any. But what happens if, during divorce proceedings, one of the spouses becomes critically ill or dies – with no changes to life insurance during the divorce?

This was illustrated recently in a high profile celebrity divorce case where the life policy owner – film star Dennis Hopper, was locked in an acrimonious divorce with his estranged fifth wife Victoria Duffy-Hopper. Hopper attempted to change the beneficiary of his life policy mid divorce so that his wife and young daughter would not receive an insurance payout in the event of his death. However the judge decided he would have to wait until the divorce came to trial before any names could be changed. Hopper died before the divorce came through and his estranged partner received the life insurance payout.

Rules Prevent Life Policy Holders from Impulsiveness

The rules regarding when changes can be made to an estate plan vary from state to state. In California, for instance, no changes can be made for a set period of time after a divorce is filed. What this seems to imply is that a person holding a life insurance policy might be better off making any necessary changes before filing the divorce papers.

The reasons for preventing those going through a divorce from making big changes such as changing beneficiaries of wills or life insurance policies is to allow them a ‘cooling off’ period; it has happened that soon to be divorced couples reunite and, if a spouse then dies without having changed their will or life policy back, they leave their bereaved partner with nothing.

Source

The Probate Lawyer Blog[1], June 2010; also featured in Forbes Magazine [2]

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