The Beckett Glaves Funeral Center in Brantford, has become the first funeral home in Canada to offer funeral services on live webcam.  This was the type of funeral Larry Ruidema Zudd’s family chose for him recently.

Larry Rudd, a soldier from Brantford, was killed by a roadside bomb in Afghanistan last year and his funeral service was streamed live from Brantford to his colleagues in Afghanistan and to relatives in British Columbia and Holland who watched the service on their computers at home.

Facebook for Funerals

The new technology has been touted as ‘Facebook for funerals,’ meaning that footage from the webcam can also be watched the next day, which was a help to Larry Rudd’s relatives in B.C since some of them lost visuals of the funeral during the service.

Life Insurance is an Option worth considering when it comes to funeral costs

For those left behind, having to arrange a funeral service for a loved one, online service or not, is one of life’s less pleasant tasks. Having the additional burden of wondering how to cover the expenses of funerals is even worse; which is why many people choose to take out life insurance which has the option to pay cash to the bereaved to cover funeral costs (sometimes cash can be paid directly to the funeral directors).

Parents of Baby Boomers would “Turn in their Graves”

The idea of online funerals doesn’t appeal to everyone, admits Glaves – “The big fear is those crazies on the internet – that mom or dad will end up in their casket on You Tube.” There is also the fact that some funeral homes are attempting to make profits by charging as much as $500 for the extra service (the Beckett Glaves Funeral Center provides the webcam for free).

When you consider that the average cost of a funeral in the US is $6500, according to the National Funeral Directors Association, it becomes apparent that dying is expensive for those left behind; this is worth remembering when taking out Life Insurance and planning ahead is the key.

Take up of Online Funerals is Rising

Around 80% of people are apparently signing up for the ‘sympathy cast’ according to Glaves, and those that decide against the service are usually baby boomers arranging funerals for parents. “They’re saying I would like to do this for me but mom would hate it.” Glaves admitted that his father, who was funeral director before him, ‘would have been horrified.’”

But, according to Paul Generowicz, owner of Sympathynet.com, the technology has been a ‘godsend’ for friends and relatives who cannot physically attend funerals – for instance because they live too far away or are confined to bed (or even prison). This is something Larry Rudd’s mother, reiterated: Zuidema Rudd said that broadcasting her son’s funeral was a comfort and that “it brought our family together without them having to come here.”

Source

Susan Pigg, The Star.com August 2010

photo credit: The National Guard

Life insurance is even more vital for soldiers whose family relies on their financial support.

Life insurance may be an afterthought for much of the general public, but for many young soldiers in the battlefields abroad, it’s a vital tool to help protect the financial security of a soldiers’ family and loved ones.

In a recent statement, defense secretary Robert Gates has warned that the U.S. public needs to see evidence that efforts to make a strategic breakthrough in Afghanistan are working if both countries are to continue to suffer the losses of young soldiers. According to Gates “the public expects to see us moving in the right direction.” We could no longer be expected to “tolerate the perception of a stalemate where we are losing young men.”

Stanley McChrystal, former U.S. commander of NATO forces is, however, said to be confident that there will soon be “sufficient progress” to “validate the strategy.” Belying this aspiration is a recent operation to clear insurgents from Marjah and parts of Helmand – both UK and US sources agree this has not gone according to plan, and soldiers on these battlefields may face a higher risk of death on the lines.

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